end up with two “soul mates”. that is, God has planned for that person to marry two people. i do believe that if God hasn’t set you to live a single life, then from the beginning he knew who you would end up with. however, what if he set us up for two people. not necessarily a second marriage out of divorce, though that can be an option. but i’m speaking mainly from the death of one’s first spouse. let’s say you married someone and it was amazing. unfortunately, your person’s time came sooner than expected. so you grieve and time has passed then you meet someone. you fall in love for the second time and eventually marry again. and maybe the second person you marry was single till you came along. the idea is that that person had to wait for you to fall in love with another person and experience the whole motion till he or she had their chance to meet you. imagine waiting for your “the one” to in that timeline.
just a thought.